I am not a fan of Valentine’s Day. I believe it has become too commercial and too focused on material gifts people have been conditioned to believe they need to give each other in order to show their love. It also highlights the “single-ness” of those who aren’t in relationships, and even for some in relationships, there is a sense of one-upping other couples with showing off what their significant others bought for them. Obviously, the more they spend on you equals the more they love you.
I don’t think that kind of tendency makes Valentine’s Day a very happy day for many people.
I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day, but I am a huge fan of love and romance, every day of the year. I am an even bigger fan of being happy. People say that love makes the world go round, I say it is happiness that makes the world go round.
Sometimes when clients ask me questions about love and relationships, they tell me that they’ll be happy when they find love. I always tell them that happiness comes from self-love, not from someone else’s love. Our happiness and self-worth should never be reliant on anyone else’s measure of whether we are deserving of their love or not.
Love doesn’t always bring happiness, but happiness always brings love. When we believe in our own worth, when we are truly happy with ourselves the just way we are – flaws and all, romantic love and the relationships in our lives usually take care of themselves.
So this Valentine’s Day, I would like to share a tarot spread for the path to happiness. I hope that it leads you to your own true happiness.
Path to Happiness Tarot Spread
1. What does true happiness mean to me?
2. How do I cultivate happiness in my life?
3. What is holding me back from true happiness?
4. What changes must I make in order to be truly happy?
5. The path to happiness is through….
As always, I would love to hear back from you about how it worked for you if you use it. Please feel free to leave a comment or contact me at email@example.com. I look forward to hearing from you!
Have a truly happy Valentine’s Day! ♥
If you are looking for more love and relationship tarot spreads, here are some other tarot spreads you might enjoy this Valentine’s Day:
This Self Love Tarot Spread by The Daily Tarot Girl is awesome for insights on how to improve your relationship with yourself.
This interesting way to do a Valentine’s Tarot Spread by Mister Tarot, based on ideas from the esteemed Mary K. Greer, is a great way to find out who you really are as a lover.
This Easy Relationship Spread by My Wandering Fool for those who are in relationships, keeps things simple and gets right down to the heart of the matter.
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